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Toxic Relationship
Molka Ben Bey
A toxic relationship is when you try really hard to make someone happy even when your happiness is the last thing that crosses their mind.
It's when you make so much effort to put an end to their depression while you don't even dare to tell them you're sad.
It's also when you feel so much pressure and you lose your ''me-time'', because they keep endlessly asking and asking and no matter how hard you try it'll not seem enough to them .
The day you realize that your time is too precious to be wasted trying to satisty an always-needy person , you'll regret how stupid you were for not giving up on that relationship earlier.
Everyone deserves someone to alleviate the burden they're carrying from a while to another, a person that shows mutual care.
Whether they're a family member, a friend or even a lover, no one of them is worth your peace of mind, because when depression hits you, you'll start seeing flocks of so-called friends and relatives leaving you temporarily until you ''get better''. They only want the good happy version of you .
Haven't you noticed that listening to their sorrows has majorly conbtributed in making you feel bad in the first place, just because you show so much involvement into their problems?
There's a quote in french which expresses the situation perfectly , ''trop bon, trop con'', and it says it all.
Protecting oneself is a priority, keep that in mind.
M.B.B